5 Signs You’re Running on Empty, And What To Do About It
- gailjardine
- Dec 29, 2025
- 3 min read
1. You Feel Exhausted No Matter How Much You Sleep
When your body and mind are running on empty, sleep stops feeling restorative. You wake up tired, drag yourself through the day, and push through tasks without energy or motivation. This constant fatigue affects decision making, patience, and safety, especially in rural work where every choice matters. Learning to effectively manage stress starts with recognising when exhaustion isn’t just physical; it’s emotional. Rest isn’t a luxury. It’s a strategy to rewire your mindset and protect your long-term wellbeing.

Dressed for work, but too tired to get going.
2. You’re Snapping at Family Over Small Things
Short tempers are one of the first signs that rural stress has quietly built up too high. When you’re overwhelmed, your nervous system stays on high alert, and even small things set you off. This can strain relationships and create distance with the people you care about most. Recognising this pattern helps you strengthen relationships by communicating before frustration boils over. Taking time to reflect, breathe, and reset your perspective is not weakness, it’s how you regain control before pressure takes a toll on your family.
3. You Can’t Make Simple Decisions Anymore
Decision fatigue hits hard when you’re overloaded. Choices that used to feel easy suddenly feel impossible, what to prioritise, which direction to take, how to solve ongoing problems. It’s a clear sign your mental load is maxed out. To overcome obstacles and unlock your potential, you need space to think clearly. This might mean delegating tasks, asking for help, or creating structure around your day. When your mind is calm and supported, your decision making becomes sharper, faster, and far more confident.
4. Emotional Overload Is Becoming Your New Normal
If you feel constantly overwhelmed, teary, numb, or stuck in “what’s the point?” mode, your mind is signalling that your emotional well-being needs attention. Rural stress builds slowly, drought, debt, isolation, weather, family pressure, and eventually your body can’t keep holding it all. Instead of pushing through alone, shift your perspective: your emotions aren’t the enemy, they’re indicators. When you acknowledge them, you begin to rewire your mindset, process stress properly, and rebuild the emotional resilience you thought you’d lost.
5. You’re Running, But You’re Not Getting Anywhere
This is one of the biggest red flags: feeling like you’re constantly busy yet never catching up. When you're stretched too thin, motivation drops, clarity disappears, and you feel stuck in survival mode. The way out is to slow down long enough to reset your mental patterns, not by working harder, but by working with more intention. Mindset coaching helps you clear mental clutter, change your perspective, regain emotional balance, and move from exhaustion to empowerment. You deserve to function at your best, not just get through the day.
Conclusion
If any of these signs feel familiar, it might be time to put yourself back on the priority list.
Running on empty doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’ve been carrying more than most people ever see. The good news is you don’t have to keep living in survival mode. With the right support, you can rebuild energy, find clarity, strengthen relationships, and feel like yourself again. Small shifts in mindset can create big changes in your life, your work, and your wellbeing.
I’d love to support you with simple, practical tools that help you effectively manage stress, improve emotional wellbeing, and reset your mindset so you can move forward with confidence.
Book a free 20-minute Discovery Call to talk about what’s going on and explore whether Mindset Strategy Coaching is the right next step for you. No pressure. No judgment. Just a real conversation, farmer to friend, human to human.




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